Thursday, June 12, 2008

Support

This is an "out there" post, and I am really just curious, so . . . chime in at the comments.

Sixteen years ago, we moved from an area of the country where there were NO Mexican-Americans (there were two in the phone book with my kids' last name--us and their uncle), to an area of the country (near Miami) where there were Latins galore. My kids' last name had 15 solid pages in the phone book. It was really great. We moved from someplace that never, ever felt like a melting pot, to a place where it was a rainbow of cultures--Cubans and Hatians, and Venezuelans and Brazilians and . . . you name the country, it was represented.

So the first week in our new house, the cable guy comes. We ordered "basic" cable. He comes in, he starts chatting. Nice guy. Latin. He looks at the job order more carefully and says to my Significant Other, "Oh . . . you're LATIN! Hey, man, que pasa." All of a sudden, my Significant Other was the recipient of a series of cool handshakes and an animated conversation.

Cable man goes out in yard. Cable man comes back in. Cable man winks at family of Mexican-Americans. Cable man says, "Hey . . . you got ALL the channels now. HBO, Showtime, Cinemax. EVERYTHING. For free. I put this little thing" (he holds up something that looked like a large silver bullet with a hole through the middle) "on your line, man. Around here, the Latins gotta stick together."

He leaves. I had amazing cable for three years.

Everywhere we went, when people heard my kids' last name, which is akin to the Mexican version of "Smith" we got free desserts. Extra ice cream at the ice cream store. You name it. If somehow a person in a service position heard we were Latin--and if they were Latin--it was like this secret world of . . . we gotta stick together.

So four hurricanes, three more children, and sixeen years later, we move BACK here. The Latin "Smith" page of the phone book is now two pages not two names. But it's still not a Latin-friendly place. At all. Outright snubs and comments, all sorts of things, especially in the anti-immigration political climate.

So it is that when Baby Girl and I watch any kind of competition show--whether it's American Idol, which she and Oldest watched devotedly, or this show, at the outset, she always looks for a Latin person to root for, and her secondary choice is someone gay. If they are kicked off, then she finds a third choice. It's actually kind of funny. Our way of "sticking together." Not that we're gay but we have so many friends who are so . . . we root the gay-way.

So here's my BOOK question. Do you ever buy, or gravitate, toward a book or author because of what they represent to you. Now . . . it doesn't have to mean you are Latin and buy Latin authors, or African-American and buy African-American authors. Maybe you have a certain disease or certain problem, and you choose memoirs by people you relate to. Maybe you saw such-and-such an author on a talk show and they said something about their personal life and you feel "represented" when you buy their books. Maybe it's someone from your area of the country, your hometown. Maybe you support erotica authors because it's what you write. Or some other "niche" in e-books or indie publishing.

Do you ever buy a book to SUPPORT a niche, or support an AUTHOR for a reason other than what's necessarily between the cover? Just curious.

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36 Comments:

Blogger Jude Hardin said...

I'm only trying to get published so I can play in Stephen King's garage band.

8:24 AM, June 12, 2008  
Blogger Erica Orloff said...

Jude:
LOL! Wouldn't THAT be a kick? Can I play the cowbell?

E

8:27 AM, June 12, 2008  
Blogger Jude Hardin said...

Sure. :)

8:36 AM, June 12, 2008  
Blogger Erica Orloff said...

Jude:
Because we need more cowbell, you know.
E

8:38 AM, June 12, 2008  
Blogger Edie said...

If there's a choice of a book between a woman and a man, I'll buy the woman's. That's probably my only support. But it still has to be the kind of book I like. I do buy books written by men, too, but not nearly as many as by women.

I watched Do You Think You Can Dance last night. The dancers were amazing!

8:50 AM, June 12, 2008  
Blogger Erica Orloff said...

Hi edie:
How interesting! I almost ALWAYS buy books written by men. Now, that may be because I read physics . . . and women are sorely underrepresented there. But still . . . I never consider gender. In fiction, my faves are Neil Gaiman, Patrick McGrath (he could write a grocery list and I would read it and worship the paper it was written on), and Margaret Atwood.

E

P.S. WOW are those dancers good. My daughter is rooting for Twitch, I think.

8:55 AM, June 12, 2008  
Blogger Travis Erwin said...

I always try to support the authors I've met, both in person and cyberly.

8:56 AM, June 12, 2008  
Blogger Erica Orloff said...

Travis:
I do that, too. I've bought Julie Leto's books because she is so absolutely lovely and I thought my daughter would like her Marisela character.

I would never read a Debbie Macomber book (not my thing) but she is one of the NICEST women writing today and would recommend her to anyone who likes those kinds of books. Just a sweet woman and very humble and gracious despite mega-success.

And there are TWO writers whose books I would NEVER buy because I have met them and they were so utterly horrid that the SIGHT of their book covers makes me shudder.

So there you go. ;-)
E

9:03 AM, June 12, 2008  
Blogger lainey bancroft said...

I like to buy new authors, particularly ones I've met on line. Or seasoned authors who I've met on line and adore. =)

Like you, theres a few authors I'll never support. A while back I lurked on the blog of a newish author. She was amusing but not nearly as funny as she thought. I bought her first book, it was okay...with a small 'o'. Not long after that she did a week long blog rant about judging an RWA contest and referred to the entrants as "retarded rabbits in the road" I can only imgine what sort of feeback she offered these poor newbie writers who'd worked up the nerve and bucks to try a contest. I wouldn't read her other releases now if she hand delivered them to me.

9:25 AM, June 12, 2008  
Blogger Erica Orloff said...

Hi Lainey:
I like to support new writers, too. And . . . gosh, I never know what to make of people who rant like that in a hurtful way. I judged a YA contest for RWA recently. And I found something positive to say to each entrant, as well as things to work on. They all weren't the same quality. Some were really polished, and so needed a lot of work. I definitely used my red pen . . . but anyone with hopes and dreams deserves my respect.
E

9:30 AM, June 12, 2008  
Blogger Jude Hardin said...

I gotta fever, and the only prescription is MORE COWBELL.

9:31 AM, June 12, 2008  
Blogger Erica Orloff said...

Jude:
yeah, baby!
E

9:42 AM, June 12, 2008  
Blogger Michele Hauf said...

Hmm, I don't think I do buy specifically to support. Though I did buy a book once by a new author, who was Scandinavian (as I am) so maybe I had a moment of weakness there. :-)

Is that the grad pic of your daughter on the previous post! Gorgeous! And congrats!

9:47 AM, June 12, 2008  
Blogger Erica Orloff said...

Michele:
Yes! That is her. Thanks! It was a beautiful day. She played violin, too.
E

9:48 AM, June 12, 2008  
Anonymous LaDonna said...

Hey Erica, I gravitate to anything original. Not sure that's a niche, but it's what I buy. LOL. And I love Southern locales. I read a couple of authors faithfully who wrote novels placed on the Carolina coasts, and Maine. I'm a water-baby, and drawn to the setting. So, I guess I'm a Southern water/beach supporter! Wierd, I never thought of it quite like that before. Thanks for the insight.

10:39 AM, June 12, 2008  
Blogger Erica Orloff said...

Hi Ladonna:
I like when I go to my local bookstore and see "hometown" authors supported.

E

10:40 AM, June 12, 2008  
Blogger Stephen Parrish said...

I don't favor any gender, race, size, or shape of author. I'm as loyal to blogging buddies as I can afford to be.

I once had a job that provided an opportunity to interview and hire a lot of people over a seven year period. For reasons I've never been able to explain, my best workers (in education administration) were native Spanish speakers; it didn't matter what country they were from. I learned to put such applicants at the top of the pile. Predictably, after a few years my branch of the company consisted of so many Latins that it was referred to by the disgruntled as the "Spanish Mafia."

11:15 AM, June 12, 2008  
Blogger Erica Orloff said...

Stephen:
LOL! Love that . . .

I was actually interested in the answers to this today because whole IMPRINTS are built around some niches, some races, even sexuality (LGBT imprints). So . . . you know, just curious . . . .


E

11:24 AM, June 12, 2008  
Blogger Sarah Laurenson said...

I like far too many things to pick out a pattern, except...

Strong women charcters who kick ass are my faves. And those are written by both men and women. If I meet an author I like, I'll look for their book. Reverse is also true.

I do buy a lot of middle grade and YA because it's what I write and because, being involved with SCBWI, I know a lot of those authors.

I have read one and a piece of one of Debbie Macomber's books. Very nice - like TV - well drawn characters, deep subjects but all handled with a light touch. My mom loves them, so I buy them for her. They're a bit on the fluff side for me to continue reading her.

I've dabbled with quilting mysteries, knitting books (Macomber), translations - which I find very fascinating but not always easy to read. Love different cultures, different voices. Hell - I just love books.

11:47 AM, June 12, 2008  
Blogger spyscribbler said...

First books of first-time authors, spy books, books of all the blogs I visit, and anyone who has CFS/FM.

Except this year, I'm not buying any books. Well, I'm down to about one book a month. I feel guilty, but what can I do? I'm trying my best. If I win the lottery, I'll buy a whole house full of books, I promise!

I feel horrible about it, like I'm letting down the whole book world. But I'll buy loads and loads of books again soon, I promise!

12:17 PM, June 12, 2008  
Blogger Erica Orloff said...

Sarah:
I guess, if I think about it, I support the physicists of the world.

;-)
E

12:19 PM, June 12, 2008  
Blogger Erica Orloff said...

Hi Spy:
TIME is my biggest crunch, i.e., I KNOW I don't have the time to read as much as I like, so I don't buy the books. I presume someday, when I am old and gray, I will make up for it by voraciously reading again.
E

12:20 PM, June 12, 2008  
Blogger Merry Monteleone said...

You know, I don't know that my local or ethnicity has particularly had an impact on book buying itself - I've bought more books from authors I've met online in the last few years, because they're nice... and yeah, an author who's an ass will turn me off of buying them again.

My reading fare is puposely eclectic, though. One of the things I love about reading is the ability to visit other places, people, and voices... so it's all over the board. But I do love it when I pick up a novel that's really well written and happens to be set in Chicago, or is a good representation of Italian Americans - especially Sicilians... because when they're done well, it feels like coming home, but I don't generally pick them up because of the setting and nationality, it's just a little perk when it happens that way.

I have a friend who, if she were a blog reader would be nodding her head all the way through this post. She's Mexican, her husband is white (his family's been here so long I doubt he even knows an actual nationality). She grew up in Chicago, where it really is ethnic friendly, she speaks perfectly in both languages and visited Mexico like once a year with her family... For the husband's job, they had to move to a tiny town in Wisconsin.

For the first year or so, she called me sporatically just to tell me that she hates white people... I didn't mind, she wasn't talking about me, she was talking about people who happen to be white but think everyone of any color is low class and immigrant - of which she is neither and she has enough character to know that low class often better fits the people imposing the judgment.

She's kind of gotten used to it now and made some friends there. But it was really hard for her at first. Their daughter happens to take after the father (blue eyes, blond hair) - and the worst for her was how many people mistook my friend for the nanny or cleaning girl... ugh.

1:20 PM, June 12, 2008  
Blogger Erica Orloff said...

Merry:
Wow . . . I so relate to your friend. Really relate. I have had people make stereotypical comments. My best example? I was nine months preggers and counting with Baby Girl and at a party that was thrown by a wealthy friend of mine, standing in a room of all investment bankers and so on, and their wives, most of whom were Botoxed to death. And the women started asking me about when I was going to "hire help" to give me a hand with the kids, and I said I wasn't--that I was HAVING babies to raise them MYSELF. And then . . . THEN . . . they started launching into this whole thing about I should really hire a "nice Mexican lady" because "they" were so "good" with children and they couldn't LIVE without their Mexican nanny and all their FRIENDS couldn't live without THEIR Mexican nannies. And then I said, "Hmm . . . funny. My children ARE Mexican, so I guess that makes me a Mexican nanny." Then I walked away, leaving mouths dropped open.

Since I've moved here, I've had people make comments. And my kids have been told "all" Mexicans are dirty. One boy told Baby Girl that Mexicans are all "rapists." What a wonderful HE must be growing up in.

E

1:29 PM, June 12, 2008  
Blogger Melanie Avila said...

Erica - OMG. I love your response about the Mexican nanny. I wish I could say I'm surprised at their comments but sadly, but some people are trapped in their bubble and refuse to see the world as it really is. I'm blond & blue eyed and my husband is Mexican and we've joked that if we have kids while we're here people might think I'm the nanny.

I had a similar experience with the name change. If I saw my maiden name in the phone book I knew it was a relative, whereas now I'm one of thousands. I miss being unique.

As for books, I don't have a particular method to choosing authors, but I do shy away from characters and plots that seem too cliche.

1:47 PM, June 12, 2008  
Blogger Erica Orloff said...

Hi Melanie:
Well, Orloff is my real name . . . it's Russian, and it's not common, so that's cool. I probably hear once every two months or so from my website from another Orloff somewhere trying to see if we're related. We never are--but they all say they don't know ANY others.

E

3:07 PM, June 12, 2008  
Blogger The Anti-Wife said...

Hi Erica! A good cozy mystery will snag me every time. Other than that I don't favor any gender or nationality or anything else.

4:38 PM, June 12, 2008  
Blogger Erica Orloff said...

Hi Anti-wife:
Nice to see you "out and about" in the blogosphere. Hope you are feeling better.
E

5:03 PM, June 12, 2008  
Blogger Aimless Writer said...

I buy books to support new authors and my blogging buddies. And those that just seem interesting.
I can't seem to get enough books. Barnes & Noble is candyland.
Since unemployment is looming this summer I'm stocking up for long hours on the back deck with book in hand. (when I'm not writing, that is)

9:35 PM, June 12, 2008  
Blogger Zoe Winters said...

yeah, often things in the kink realm. That's a case of "gotta stick together" as well. Too many people still think it's abusive and too many people would like to legislate what goes on privately and consensually between adults.

10:33 PM, June 12, 2008  
Blogger Suzanne Perazzini said...

I've been MIA for a few days and I just saw your last post. What a beautiful photo with such a happy smile on your daughter's face. Time moves far too swiftly. I remember my son in my arms as if it were yesterday. Cliched but true.

1:44 AM, June 13, 2008  
Blogger Erica Orloff said...

aimless;
Well, I am sorry you are looking at unemployment, but I do hope you rest and enjoy reading until you start something new.
E

7:45 AM, June 13, 2008  
Blogger Erica Orloff said...

Hi Zoe:
It would be nice if government always kept out of consenting adults' bedrooms . . . .
E

7:46 AM, June 13, 2008  
Blogger Erica Orloff said...

Hi Suzanne:
It seems to pass in an instant.
E

7:47 AM, June 13, 2008  
Blogger Ello said...

I do gravitate to books that are Asian. But there is not a lot of them, unless it is historical fiction or translations of foreign books. It would be nice to see more Asian themed American books - like Joy Luck Club. I would support that. You can't help but do so.

10:37 AM, June 14, 2008  
Blogger Erica Orloff said...

ello:
Have you read and of Lisa See's books? They are MARVELOUS! Snow Flower and the Secret Fan . . . so well-written.

Also, did you ever read WAITING by Ha Jin? Loved that. He is one of my favorite writers.
E

10:49 AM, June 14, 2008  

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